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SCHOOL iS IN SESSION

My stepdaughter is being bullied and her mum is asking me for advice

READ Dear Deidre editor Sally Land's personal replies to today's problems.

WALKING A THIN LINE

Is it weird that my boyfriend still meets his ex-wife for dog walks?

SO LONELY

At 28, I still don't know how to talk to people or make friends

ongoing trauma

My girlfriend's sister was sexually abused as a child - was my partner too?

PLAYING AWAY

Pro footballer caught cheating on wife after being exposed on doorbell cam

DEAR DEIDRE

My boyfriend has cheated twice and now wants a trans threesome - I can't do it

PROPOSAL POSTPONED

I'm ready to propose but my girlfriend has started staying out late

INCONSIDERATE

My daughter's ex refuses to be flexible - it's not fair on their son

READ Dear Deidre editor Sally Land's personalised advice to today's problems.

FATHER'S PAIN

My son took his life and I've never felt more alone - I don't know what to do

AMERI-CAN'T

I've never met my boyfriend who lives in the US - is it time to move on?

DEIDRE'S STORIES

Amber is introduced to new recruit Kelly

DEAR DEIDRE

I wasn't devastated when I found out my wife was cheating - it turned me on

THE OTHER WOMAN

I'm convinced that my boyfriend would get back with his ex if he could

AISLE SAY

I'm terrified dad will ruin my sister's wedding as he doesn't like her fiancé

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HUGE MISTAKE

My fiancée has called off our wedding after finding out about my stupid affair

DISABILITY WOES

I'm 22 and lost total use of my legs - I have no will to live any more

FINISHING ISSUES

I can't climax since my girlfriend slept with another man during a break

DEAR DEIDRE

I want another baby so much I might have an affair to get pregnant

KEEP IT IN THE FAMILY

I know it's wrong but I'm in love with my neice

DOWN IN THE DUMPS

I'm heartbroken after my long-term boyfriend dumped me for no reason

WEDDING WORRIES

I'm anxious at the thought of my toxic mother ruining my wedding day

HORRIBLE HUBBY

I cry every day as my depressive husband calls me fat and ugly

DEAR DEIDRE

My wife lets me have sex with other men as otherwise I'd be depressed

TIED IN KNOTS

I've realised at the age of 82 that I married the wrong man

JOYSTICK JUNKIE

Husband only spends time on his PlayStation, he's like a 40-year-old teen

READ Dear Deidre editor Sally Land's personalised advice to today's problems.

NOT SO 'APPY

I've tried every dating app but can't find anyone who wants to go on a date

THE EX FILES

I'm jealous of husband showing attention to ex-wife while she battles cancer

STUCK IN THE MIDDLE

The arguing between my partner & her daughter is really getting me down

READ Dear Deidre editor Sally Land's personalised advice to today's problems.

DEIDRE'S STORIES

Finn tells Ashley he only said he's going on date to make her jealous

DEAR DEIDRE

My ex won't move out after I caught him sexting other women, I feel so trapped

KID WORRIES

I caught my 11-year-old daughter naked in bed with her best female friend

SON'S MELTDOWNS

I think my son is on the spectrum - he's anxious and impulsive

CONFIDENCE BOOST

Thank you for helping me to talk to partner - I no longer feel lonely

PUSH OVER

My girlfriend walks all over me because I’m weak and I have no self-confidence

GAME OVER

My boyfriend's so addicted to playing video games that he pays me no attention

SELF LOVE FEARS

My friends think I masturbate too much and now I’m worried I’m a freak

DEAR DEIDRE

Wife's anxiety has left me a porn addict - I have to watch it every single day

PARTY POOPER

My daughter's excluding my boyfriend by refusing to invite him to her birthday